I should have phrased the question differently: Would players prefer a different set of expectations?

Ahhhh, I see! Yeah, it's hard to say. FK is a somewhat unusual fandom, I think, even in these ship-war-ish days, that it has so many factions with such radically different takes on the characters.

I do feel as if most people at least TRY to make their recipients happy, even if their recipient's take on the show is different from their own. Even in "optional details are optional" exchanges, most people try to write the details anyway.

Such a difficult situation.

You are an excellent mod, though, and I know you work very hard to try to get the best possible matches.