I actually do not remember what happened on the lists around the sharing of the scene (eeep?).

It may be just the passage of decades. Or it may be that I didn't yet understand, or wasn't yet looking in the right places. I found the lists only after "The Human Factor" knocked me for a loop and sent me seeking someone to discuss it with on this new "Internet" thing, from the university computer lab. (At the time, I believed Nick had let Janette die human. I can only wonder whether I would have ever found the fandom, if I'd understood that episode differently to start...)