I'm sorry that you've been sick and slammed! I hope those are fading and retreating, and that things get much better, much faster for you.

Yes, expecting that every participant would read everything in any such event -- never mind commenting -- could lead only to sadness. I hope no one is burdening themselves with that!

I do feel that people expect what they're familiar with, and that HLH_Shortcuts is not wholly like what most people are familiar with. I personally feel anxious when I don't know what's going on, and I have leaped to sad conclusions from time to time when I was left to guess alone. So I thought I would explain. If no one needed any explanation... no harm done, just me looking little silly! :-)