a "hand-matched" exchange

[brightknightie]

I've seen a few ficathon/fest exchange announcements recently that advertise themselves as "hand-matched" (presumably as opposed to the AO3's automated matching).

If this is a selling point, I must remember to include it on future fkficfest/fkficfest promotions!

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[brightknightie]

I'm sorry about that person's misunderstanding of the nature of the rare-pair request and match! That's not at all a fair expectation. And it put a burden on you that is kind of ... slimy, in the way it undermines its own supposed reason for existence.

It's extremely lonely in a fandom where there's an absolutely overwhelming non-canonical majority view that you don't happen to share.

>"I don't know if FK fans have such hard-drawn lines in the sand,..."

FK doesn't share a single overwhelming fanon assumption like Teen Wolf and, to a somewhat lesser extent, Highlander do. FK is the polar opposite. No one agrees about anything in FKdom, hardly even baseline canon. :-)

Knighties versus Dark Knighties? Knighties versus Cousins? Natpackers versus Knighties? Unnamed Faction versus Cousins of the Knight? Third-season lovers versus third-season deniers? N&Ners versus everyone else? Ravenettes and Nevermores both treasure Janette! :-)

I can barely imagine a happy outcome from automated matching in FK.

I literally stressed myself sick the one time that I (Knightie; Nick's quest for humanity is right and just) got matched with PJ (Cousin, Dark Knightie, UFer; vampires, including Nick, should drink blood and kill people) in a fest. It was painful. The resulting story in fact drove away from FK someone whom I was then trying to interest in the show (I didn't know he was going to read it! I didn't know he'd found the AO3! I would have explained!). I anticipate that I will immediately default if I'm ever again matched with PJ or another such "dark" fan.

When I say that one FKFicFest prompt slate stars Reese in every request and the next refuses to mention Reese under any circumstances... "Reese" is a placeholder for other characters, pairings and perspectives, but the situation is wholly real, around and around our small circle. There's vanishingly little agreement.

Yay, hand-matching? ;-)

[argentum_ls]

It's extremely lonely in a fandom where there's an absolutely overwhelming non-canonical majority view that you don't happen to share.

It really is. Fortunately, I managed to carve out a little niche and meet some great people.

FK is the polar opposite. No one agrees about anything in FKdom, hardly even baseline canon. :-)

:) What I remember from my mailing list days is that everyone had their own interpretations, but also that (most) everyone worked to stay respectful of the others. I don't recall discussions getting nasty very often or people being snots about forcing their preferences on the fandom-at-large. Of course, that was a long time ago, so it's possible that my recollection is less than perfect. It was my first, shiny fandom, so I definitely approach it with stars in my eyes.

I can barely imagine a happy outcome from automated matching in FK.

No, I can't see that automated matching would work at all. Part of being respectful lies in recognizing where people's boundaries are, and no AO3 script is going to know that a player simply can't (or won't) write a character the way their recipient understands it.

I'm sorry that you had to go through the experience of a bad match. Both you and PJ are too nice to have had to suffer that. I'm also sorry that the resulting story drove someone away. We all have stories that aren't what they could be, or that aren't "us" (especially when it comes to exchange-written fic, where we may be making an effort to write past our normal boundaries). For a story to run someone out of a potential fandom is a harsh blow.

For this fandom, then, it sounds like hand-matching is definitely a selling point.